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Why are we wrong about our friends or our enemies Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning.And if we don’t really listen, we miss the feeling behind the words. Suppose someone says to you, "You’re a lucky dog." Is he really on your side If he says, "You’re a lucky guy" or "You’re a lucky gal," that’s being friendly.But if he says, "You are a lucky dog." There’s a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn’t see it himself.But bringing in the dog he put you down a little. What he may be saying is that he doesn’t think you deserve your luck.
"Just think of all the things you have to be thanking for" is another noise that says one thing and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole.But is he Wrapped up in this phrase is the thought that your problem isn’t important. It’s telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you have not got a date for Saturday night.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words One way is to take a good look at the person talking.Do his words fit the way he looksDoes what he says square with his tone of voice, his posture, the look in his eyes Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.
Therefore, when you hear someone saying, please try to know what he really means.Don’t just listen to what he says with your ears but feel the words he uses with your heaD、In this way, you may make less mistakes.
B、size up people
C．avoid mistakes in understanding what people tell you
D．keep people friendly without trusting them
网考网参考答案：C
网考网解析：
[分析] 主旨题型 本文讲得是：人在任何年龄都会犯错误；为了避免犯错误或少犯错误，我们不光要用耳朵听人们的话，还要用头脑去感知人们的言外之意。因此答案为C。本文要告诉我们如何避免在理解人们话语时犯错。 document.getElementById("warp").style.display="none"; document.getElementById("content").style.display="block"; 查看试题解析出处>>
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