ChArm is thE ultimAtE wEApon, thE suprEmE sEDuCtion, AgAinst whiCh thErE ArE FEw DEFEnsEs. iF you’vE got it, you nEED Almost nothing ElsE, nEithEr monEy, looks, nor pEDigrEE. 41. {{u}}it is A giFt, only givEn to givE AwAy, AnD thE morE usED thE morE thErE is. it is Also A ClimAtE oF BEhAvior sEt For pErpEtuAl summEr AnD ControllED By tAstE AnD tACt{{/u}}.
rEAl ChArm is DynAmiC, An EnvEloping spEll whiCh mystEriously EnslAvEs thE sEnsEs. it is An innEr light, FED on rEsErvoirs oF BEnEvolEnCE whiCh wEll up likE A thErmAl spring. it is unConsCious, oFtEn nothing But thE wish to plEAsE, AnD CAnnot BE turnED on AnD oFF At will.
42. {{u}}you rECognizE ChArm By thE FEEling you gEt in its prEsEnCE. you know who hAs it.But CAn you gEt it, too proBABly, you CAn’t, BECAusE it’s A quiCknEss oF spirit, An originAlity oF touCh you hAvE to BE Born with{{/u}}. or it’s somEthing thAt grows nAturAlly out oF AnothEr quAlity, likE thE simplE DEsirE to mAkE pEoplE hAppy.CErtAinly, ChArm is not A quEstion oF lEArning triCks, likE wrinkling your nosE, or hAving A lAugh in your voiCE, or gAily tossing your hAir out oF your DAnCing EyEs. 43. {{u}}suCh signs, to thE nErvous, ArE ominous wArnings whiCh mAy wEll sEnD him strEAking For CovEr. on thE othEr hAnD, thErE is An AntEnnA, A Built-in AwArEnEss oF othErs, whiCh most pEoplE hAvE, AnD whiCh CArE CAn nourish{{/u}}.
But in A stuDy oF ChArm, whAt ElsE DoEs onE look ForApArt From thE ABility to listEn-rArEst oF All humAn virtuEs AnD most DiFFiCult to sustAin without vAguEnEss--ApArt From wArmth, sEnsitivity, AnD thE powEr to plEAsE, whAt ElsE is thErE visiBlE 44. {{u}}A、gEnErosity, i supposE, whiCh mAkEs no DEmAnDs, A trAnsACtion whiCh strikEs no BArgAins whiCh DoEsn’t holD itsElF BACk till youv’E FillED up A tEst-CArD mAking it ClEAr thAt you’rE worth thE trouBlE{{/u}}.ChArm CAn’t withholD, But spEnDs itsElF willingly on young AnD olD AlikE, on thE poor, thE ugly, thE Dim, thE Boring, on thE lAst FAt mAn in thE CornEr. 45.{{u}} it rEvEAls Also in A sEnsE oF EAsE, in CAsuAl But pErFECt mAnnErs, AnD oFtEn in A physiCAl grACE whiCh springs lEss From An ACCiDEnt oF youth thAn From A ConFiDEnt sErEnity oF minD、Any pErson with this is morE thAn just A populAr FEllow, hE is Also A soCiAl hEAlEr{{/u}}.