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You’re sitting at a restaurant waiting for a frienD、Twenty minutes after your designated meeting time, they arrive in a flutter with a list of excuses. Perhaps there was too much traffic or a meeting ran long. You’ve heard it a million times, yet their behavior never changes. Sound familiar

"I think everyone has a person in their life that does this," said Herb Reich, author of the book 2051 Things That Really Piss Me Off. "Being late constantly, to me, means you are saying your time is more valuable than mine."
Reich said while it’s easier to forgive friends and family for their lateness, we need to establish very clear boundaries for being on time when it comes to professional relationships. "Sometimes I will establish consequences in the contract." he said, "It’s always wise to let people know what you feel about their behavior."
And while Reich said lateness is a "personality trait," psychologist PamelaBrand said the behavior is neurological (神经学的)." We call this a bio-psycho-socio pattern,"Brand saiD、
The biological cause of lateness, she said, is when the person’s organization and planning skills are underdevelopeD、Socially, she said here can be learned behaviors or cultural communities that don’t focus on time or being prompt.
"If someone wasn’t raised ever looking at a watch things were kind of loose growing up, just knowing this can help us understand why they function a certain way," she saiD、
The psychological part of the pattern is when a person pardons or rationalizes their behavior with excuses.Brand saiD、So can people change their ways
"It’s my belief that all patterns can be changed if a person is conscious and wants it to be changeD、"Brand saiD、"There’s a book called YouAre Not YourBrain that I refer to often that outlines a four-step process of changing patterns in the brain. It does a wonderful job of giving a clear explanation of how pattems develop, how they are hard wired into the brain and how to shift pattems to support neurological shifting.
"This could take six months for a neurological change to stick." she saiD、To lend support for someone who is trying to be more punctual.Brand said it helps to raise the stakes.
"A、person is much less likely to be motivated if there are no consequences."Brand saiD、"If there is no threat to losing a relationship, losing a job or getting kicked out of school, things will stay the same. So if being late bothers you, you have to rally make the contract clear."
Reich agrees. "Once, I was waiting for someone in my professional life, and after 15 minutes, I left." he saiD、"I explained why I did this, and that changed their behavior. My time is just as valuable as theirs and I don’t want to sit arounD、They weren’t late after that.\
According to Herb Reich,______.
A、one’s behavior of being late with excuses will never change
B、those whose time is more valuable tend to be always late for appointment
C、it’s wise to state the consequences of lateness in a professional relationship
D、it’s unnecessary to blame friends and family for their lateness